The holiday season is so exciting, isn’t it? So much food, family and merriment to be had, but as we all know, kids are all about the gifts (and not socks). If the children in your life aren’t already bouncing out of their footy pajamas in anticipation of presents, I’m sure they will be.
As much fun as Christmas can be, coping with the reality of December 26th can be a real challenge. How do you prevent stimulation overload on Christmas? Christmas is always exciting, but the carnage of multiple presents being opened can leave some kids on a present-high. Here are a few tips to avoiding toy overload after the piles of wrapping paper and boxes have settled.
If you find yourself in toy overload (or if it’s hard to find your baby under all of those toys) you need to proactively take steps to reduce clutter as soon as possible before it becomes an out-of-control situation. A good room cleaning and removal of old toys is a good way to get rid of some of the clutter, but some kids are overwhelmed by the new toys. Some parents opt to store away a few presents and save them for a few weeks, or even months, after Christmas. This is a great practice for seasonal toys and board games, or toys that might make better companions on road trips, rainy days or sick days.
Of course, the trick is to remember the toys you stored so they can be enjoyed before the child outgrows them. If you’re worried you might forget about stored toys, ask if you can send them to a often-visited relative’s home for play during visits.
If your child does not show enthusiasm for a new toy, it’s probably best to return or donate it to a good charity rather than let it sit neglected at the bottom of a toy box. Store credits usually have a pretty long expiration period, so they’ll be perfect for a fun spring surprise in April. It’s hard not to be offended when the gift you thought was perfect ends up filed under “meh” - but it’s the thought that counts, and the toy (or its store credit) will bring plenty of joy for another child or as a new toy later. Make sure that kids understand when a gift is returned that they will get a new toy in the future, and maybe include it as a part of an allowance or reward system.
And of course, there is always the old “don’t buy it” method. When you make your shopping list for Christmas, go ahead and remove a quarter of the items. Your kids will never know! Encourage relatives to purchase physical experiences, such as special event tickets, day trips, favorite meals and movie tickets, rather than toys. Everyone will enjoy the shared time together, and memories last longer than toys.
I hope these simple tips help get you through the holiday weekend sanely and safely. And if not this year, there’s always next year. Happy holidays to all, and best wishes.